Select your partner with discretion BECAUSE MARRIAGE IS HONOURABLE IN ALL

Wisdom protects and delivers us. Wisdom will protect us the whole day.

Marriage is the plan of GOD, it is a family of GOD, it is a foundation to generations, and it is very special to GOD. Marriage is HIS plan to establish and prepare righteous people in HIS kingdom. It is a covenant. A wrong marriage spells doom (generations are lost) whereas a right marriage promotes happiness and peace in abundance, builds up a strong bond WITH GOD for generations and will become a training workshop to GOD’s children.

Choosing a right partner is very important because we live our life with that partner and most important – we are preparing a family for GOD. Then how is it possible to choose a right partner?

Today’s youth are more susceptible for deception. Beauty, wealth, nice and sweet talking and many worldly/ materialistic things are all deceptive and today’s youth are falling for these. They are also falling to Satan’s wild tricks by getting boosted by the movies and worldly counsels from worldly people. Whether they choose Rebekah like Isaac or Delilah like Samson depends entirely on their discretion and their relationship with GOD.

When we pray to GOD to lead us to the right partner from the beginning and also read word of GOD for developing faith within us, and for gaining wisdom, then GOD will surely lead us in the right way. More precisely, we will be in a position to understand HIS guidance. A car in the dark can only move, when there are lights to guide and see in the dark, even though there is a road. When we are having fellowship with GOD, we experience a relationship with HIM, and then we feel the discretion within us to be able to distinguish what is wrong and what is right. We feel experiencing peace within us if the person is approved (by GOD) else we feel a sort of ‘no peace’ within us. If we still suppress this experience within us and proceed like Samson, then we fall into trouble. This indicates we will face a lot of problems, and REQUIRES A LOT OF PRAYER AND SUPPORT TO CONQUER THEM. So then, one should question oneself – am I ready to face all this? Can I fight with perseverance till I conquer? It is like jumping into the midst of a furnace and trying to come out (some will make it but some will not). It is better to take the help of a person filled with the grace of GOD, guided by the HOLY SPIRIT to hear what GOD says to you, if you are not in a position to feel/ hear GOD’s voice. But still one should try to hear HIS voice directly because HE definitely gives a solution when one seeks HIM in prayer. One important thing is - as much as GOD honors marriage, HE hates divorce. HE is a witness in every marriage. (Malachi 2: 14-16). So choose your partner right through prayer and submission to GOD. 

Happy Valentine’s Day to all singles and couples. J 

If you would like to know more, take out some time and read message in this same blog - "Marriage is honorable in all"

Praise GOD!!